Look at the section called "Creating an SQL iAnywhere Database and User" in the "SAP Afaria Installation Guide"..
SOME of the data i've copied in here for searchability, but you need to read the entire section.
Creating an SQL iAnywhere Database and User
If you plan to use Sybase iAnywhereSQLAnywhere database with Afaria, create the database
for operations, and an associated user to provide a user context to access the database.
The database name should remain the same throughout the Afaria server installation and
configuration process.
1. Create a database. Use default configuration settings with the exception of these
attributes:
• Install jConnect metadata support – disabled.
• Page size – 8192 KB minimum.
2. Create a database user for the Afaria service to use for database access. Assign the database
administrator (DBA) authority to the user.
3. Connect to the new database using these network database server properties:
• Identification – database user name and password that you created for database access.
• Database – indicate the database server name and start line “dbsrv11.exe,” as well as
the database name and file.
Do not start the database using start line “dbeng11.exe,” which is for non-network
database servers and does not support enough database connections for the Afaria
service.
SAP strongly recommends that you have only one instance of dbsrv11.exe per
database.